Samantha

I'd love for us to spend our time engaging in things that are very special for you. My goal is for the two of us to create our own little world, set apart from the everyday, where we make our own rules and pleasure is the only criterion for judgment. The questions that follow are intended to spark some ideas and encourage you to use your imagination.

I'd like to have an adventure. What do you suggest?

I love adventures! What about an excursion such as:

• A shopping trip to one of the city's fine adult toy stores, such as Womyn's Ware, to pick out something interesting and fun to take to our private nest to play with together.
• A picnic: sensual food and a walk in a secluded forest or park.
• A drive to one of the city's "lovers' lanes" where we can park the car and pretend we're teenagers once again.

Can we play with toys? What's available?

Toys are fun! They can add new sensations and make familiar activities come alive in new ways. I have a selection of good-quality toys that we can use together. Please ask me about them. Depending on the scenario, I may require an additional fee for the session. I will discuss this with you when we book the appointment.

Are you dominant or submissive? Would you do a D/s scene?

Personally, I tend to be submissive, though I can switch roles in some cases. I am happy to negotiate a D/s scene that's safe, sane and consensual. Please feel free to express your thoughts and ideas so that we can create an unforgettable event.

What are your limits in D/s?

I only engage in Domination and submission scenes with partnersI know and with whom I feel very comfortable. I insist on negotiating what can and can't be included in our play, in advance. Safe words are a must! For bondage games, it's essential that the person who is bound should be able to free him or herself quickly and unaided. I will not agree to be both restrained and blindfolded in most circumstances. Nothing that we do may leave marks anywhere on my body. I will not agree to abandonment scenarios; knife play or piercings; including animals; anything involving feces, urine or blood; or involving third parties without prior, express agreement.

Can I spank or paddle you?

Yes, you can, provided that you minimize bruising and leave no welts or similar marks anywhere on my body. For that reason, paddling is generally a less-good option (paddles tend to bruise), but using a suede or deerskin flogger, which I can provide, is okay, as is a hand spanking. Redness that fades within a few hours is acceptable. Please share your thoughts and ideas with me when you make the appointment.

Can we do some roleplaying?

Certainly! I'm happy to roleplay many different scenes. For example:

• You're interviewing prospective employees; I've applied for a position.
  
• You're conducting a performance review; I'm the employee.
• You're a priest, hearing confessions; I'm a penitent, making a confession.
• You've returned to your old school to see a teacher about something that happened long ago.
• You're in a library; I'm the librarian.
• You have a problem with your next-door neighbour; I'm the neighbour.

Would you entertain another woman or more than one man?

As a heterosexual woman, I enjoy the company of other women. I prefer to have only limited intimate contact with women, however. I'm happy to have another woman with us provided that my limits and boundaries are understood and accepted ahead of time. I will consider engaging with more than one man in some circumstances. Please e-mail me to discuss your ideas. I will not entertain bachelor's parties and similar gatherings.

I have an idea... Would you visit me in my office after work?

Yes, I'd be happy to consider it. Please outline your ideas when you contact me and I'll be in touch with you to discuss it.

What about a complicated scene including my office, toys and a spanking?

I'm always interested in creative scenarios. Complex scenes often require advance planning, but success is worth it! Please outline what you want to experience. I'll do my best to help make this a satisfying experience for both of us.